Friday, July 29, 2011

There is no easy way to say it but Robi passed away last night at 2:30 am. Please continue to keep the Grimshaw family in your prayers. Please leave a comment sharing a funny story or good memory of Rob. We will print them to help his young family remember what a great man he is.

48 comments:

  1. We will miss you buddy and look forword to seeing you again. Are lives have been blessed to have spent time with.

    Love You.
    CS

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  2. We will miss Robi so much! Our hearts go out to Amber and her sweet girls. As our family was grieving and talking this morning we were talking about how blessed they are to be a forever family. My kids' favorite memory, we were at Disneyland in November, and it was freezing cold at night. The kids really wanted to ride Grizzly Rapids. Daniel, Hailee, and Joslyn managed to talk Robi and Amber into taking them a total of 4 times in a row! When they got back to the hotel they were soaking wet and freezing but the kids were so happy, Robi didn't seem to mind at all. What a wonderful husband, father, and friend! He will be missed! Love, The Law Family

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  3. I can't describe the shock I had when reading this. Our love & prayers are with the Grimshaw family, continually.

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  4. Completely shocked. So sorry for the family.

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  5. Always a smile on his face. Rob made me feel happy just to be around him. I'll really miss that but know that I'll see that smile again one day. A lot of Webelos will miss him to. He was a guy that one could truly look up to. I know my son did. My prayers and thoughts are with Amber and her family at this time.

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  6. He was funny and easy to talk to

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  7. Very sad news. My heart goes out to Amber and their little girls. There has been no shortage of love for them through this extremely tough time, and I know the support will only grow from here. Robi will be missed by all.

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  8. Our thoughts and prayers are with Amber and her family at this time. May your memories of Rob and his influence on your life, and the lives of others, last an eternity.
    With love,
    The Farnsworth Family

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  9. He was always happy. He will be deeply missed. The Grimshaw family is in our prayers.

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  10. He was always a very kind, sweet, and gentle person! What an amazing example for us all. We love you cousin Rob!

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  11. Rob was an amazing soccer coach for Luke! Even though he was in pain he still came to games and practices and had a smile on his face. An amazing man and example to all. He has touched so many lives. We are praying for his sweet family!
    Love,
    The Hutchings

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  12. My heart breaks for this family. The entire family will be in my thoughts and prayers. I don't know them personally, but his family seems so beautiful.

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  13. I have never met Rob or his family but I am married to one of his high school friends and know many of his other friends...through them I have followed this story and cried with you and prayed with you.

    I have watched cancer take the life of my brother, my grandfather, my uncle and most recently, my father. It is an ugly and painful and horrific disease. They only miracle and peace that comes from it is the sweet release from this pain and suffering as your loved one lets go and returns to their Father in Heaven. Do not feel bad for Rob, for he is out of pain and with the Savior. We are just sad for ourselves and his sweet family because we have to be without him. I lost my brother at the young age of three years old. Through the pain, It has been the best testimony building and family bonding experience. In every family prayer uttered in my home it has been mention for help to "Please bless us to do what is right so that we may return to live with him...". Everyone in my family has a rock-solid testimony of the Atoning sacrifice of the Saviour and the eternal plan of salvation. My prayers are with you that your family will have this amazing blessing through this terrible tragedy and be comforted with peace and understanding from our Heavenly Father.

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  14. I too was shocked to read of Rob's passing! I've been following your story for a few weeks now and was hoping for him to pull through!!!
    My thoughts and prayers are with his family during this difficult time!!

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  15. I first met Rob when I was in 8th grade (he was in 7th) while trying out for Amerosport FC. He was the flashy, skilled player while I was more of a..... well, rip your head off kind of player. His style was a perfect match with my very physical aggressive style. Our on field chemistry was so good, it eventually trickled over into an off the field friendship that lasted a good 5 years until life took over. We spent so much time playing soccer, watching Ren & Stimpy, listening to Pearl Jam's TEN and playing music together, his parents probably thought they had another son. Some of the funnest and funniest moments were when we would set up my drums and his little guitar amp at Nathan Lee's house and jam away. I thought we sounded great... Anyone want to tell me the truth 15 years later?

    Rob....
    I will never forget you. Our paths will meet again one day. For now, I'm going to enjoy an adult beverage and listen to Pearl Jam's TEN in your memory...

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  16. Even though I don't know you, my prayers are with your whole family. I'm so sorry.

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  17. Although I don't know Rob and Amber personally, I feel like I do. My 17 year old daughter died from the same cancer and I have had the privilege of following Rob's blog and talking to Amber on the phone. Amber, I am so sorry and wish I lived closer to you. Please post the details of the service and maybe I can come. I would really like to. I have a feeling that my girl was there to greet him. They will have a lot to talk about. Call me if you need to.

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  18. I feel so devastated.
    Rob was one of those people that should have lived to be old and gray, he is one of the good guys. As our home teacher I just remember thinking how natural it all came for him. He gave my husband a blessing one time and I couldn't believe how beautiful it was....for someone just newly baptized...the spirit was so strong and he was so eloquent, like he'd been doing it for years. He was a beautiful spirit here on earth and now in heaven, I'm sure he has great work to do for the Lord.
    Amber, we are praying for you and your girls that you will continue to feel his love and his spirit in your lives always.
    Love Carol

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  19. Robi and I played soccer in high school together. Everyone loved Rob, he had no enemies. He was always Mr. GQ, loved by all the ladies. Coach Chatman called him twinkle toes. He was so talented, yet tough at the same time. I remember in a playoff game that he knocked heads with Shawn West and they were both cracked their heads open and were bleeding all over the place. Robi wanted to keep playing but he was too delirious. I don't doubt that he had that same fighting spirit in this battle, only this time because of something much more important than a game. His love for his family will continue on even in this life. He told me recently that he took comfort from knowing that he played a part in helping to reconnect his family with our Heavenly Father. I feel such sorrow now thinking about how his family will have to wait to be with him again, but I know that they will. Our love and prayers with the Grimshaw family.
    Jess Warren

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  20. There are no words to adequately express my sorrow. Rob was an amazing man with an unlimited amount of strength and courage. My heart breaks for Amber and their beautiful girls. The Grimshaws are in my thoughts and prayers.
    With Love, Brandi

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  21. I didn't know Rob but I feel like I know him from following his story and the journey he's had to go through. Originally I wasn't going to write anything because I didn't know what to say but I felt like his family needed to know that there were so many people praying for him and them and he's touched so many lives. My heart sank when I read of his passing and I want Amber and their beautiful girls to know that they will continue to be in our prayers. Becky Bair

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  22. I have also been following this story about Rob and his family for some time after hearing about it on another blog. I posted one other time when we were encouraged to let Rob know we were part of his cyber waiting room. I was so very, very saddened to read this news today. I don't your family personally, but I just wanted you to know that my heart is with you, and I will continue to pray for you.

    Linda

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  23. I don't know you but I wanted to let you know my prayers and thoughts are with you. Take comfort in Families are forever. Much Love, Tiffany

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  24. your family is in my thoughts. i'm so sorry for your loss. i remember how great of a soccer player robi was and always just such a nice guy!

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  25. I found your blog via eighteen25, and wanted to come and express my deep condolences for your loss. I, too, loss my husband to cancer, another sarcoma called lyposarcoma. Please know you're not alone, and I am more than willing to lend an ear, or a shoulder. Many ((hugs)) for you and your daughters as well as the rest of the family.

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  26. I am so sorry to learn that Rob has passed away. My thoughts and prayers are with the Grimshaw family.

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  27. I found your blog via eighteen25, I want to wish you the deepest sympathies and you are in my prayers.

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  28. When I think of Robby, I can picture a guitar. Not a fancy super expensive guitar, but a plain black and white Lion brand guitar plugged in to some old speakers in his parents garage. Then I see this kid pickin' away at this guitar like he's Hendrix. I knew in that momment, I wanted to make people feel just like that when I played. After that day, I practiced and played and practiced and played some more trying to feel like I could stand next to Robby and play and not completely embarass myself. More than ten years have gone by and I have never lost that vision of Robby playing guitar in his parents garage. I'm not sure how many times I have shared this story, but there have been quite a lot of people that have heard me talk about "some Robby Grimshaw guy" after they've asked me about my history with the guitar. To Robby's parents: thank you for giving me the opportunity to meet someone that would change my life forever. To Robby's family: I am so sorry; I hope this story makes you smile just a little. To Robby: thank you; I play everynight for my kids, Hazel and Hendrix, feel free to stop and play along; I have an extra guitar.

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  29. I came across your story through eighteen25, and although we have never met,i read your story and feel like my family knows you in a way. Much sympathy and condolences. Your story has touch this family and our hearts,we have prayed for you today and will continue to. Prayers from Los Angeles

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  30. Robi was a true fighter and an inspiration to us and so many others. His story has touched our families lives and he will forever be remembered. Amber our thoughts and prayers are with you and your beautiful girls. You are also an inspiration to us and may the lord bless you and your family.

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  31. Came across your story awhile back via eighteen25 and wanted to tell you how sorry I am for your loss. Your family will be in my thoughts.

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  32. Like Nicole, I came here via eighteen25. I just wanted to share my condolences for your loss, Rob's family and friends are in my prayers today.

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  33. I am so sorry for your loss and pray that God will carry you through this awful time.

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  34. My heart is heavy. I'm sure there is nothing more than Robi wanted to stay with you and your beautiful girls, but he was called home.
    You have the love and prayers of more people than you know. You are not left alone in this. We love and pray for you during this difficult time and pray that you will find peace in the knowledge that "Families Are Forever".
    Best wishes to your family always.

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  35. I found your blog through friends of mine. They are an amazing group of people that just love others unconditionally, and give their hearts willingly. Because of these friends, I know Robi surrounded himself with good, faithful people.
    I am sad to hear of your loss, but grateful to have been able to read of your love as a family. Your faith, love and devotion to your family has been an example to many people.
    God be with you.
    Meegan Fast

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  36. Our Heavenly Father loves us. I'm so sorry. No one understands exactly what it is like to lose Rob. No one had that bond with him except you--and how lucky you were and are. Families are forever, and I know that you will be blessed and comforted by his spirit and and by the spirits of others who deeply love you. I'm certain he has a great mission to fulfill. I love you and I don't even know you.

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  37. I was shocked to read this update and I don't know what to say. Please consider yourselves hugged.

    Stacey Leavitt

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  38. Hi.
    I'm coming to your blog from eighteen25 and my heart goes to you in a different way. I am also a young widow with young children. Our stories are different but unfortunately the result is the same. My prayers are for you and your family during this time. I know I cannot do much to make the situation better but I am here if you need help ... we are 16 months within our journey and sometimes it seems like yesterday. Much love to you and your family.
    Most Sincerely,
    Mandy

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  39. My heart broke reading this today. You don't know us but we check on your family often. you are always in our prayers. I am SO sorry for your loss. We will continue to pray for you and think of you. Love from Layton!

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  41. I happened upon this blog through eighteen25. I sit here in tears. I am a stranger, yet a sister. I recently was made aware of the Burzinsky (sp) Center. I lost my Uncle last month to Leukemia. I am so sorry for your loss. I know you are hearing a lot of this and words right now are of little comfort, but my prayers are lifted HIGH! Praying for your entire family as you deal with the emotions now and in the future. Love in Christ, ShaRhonda

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  42. Amber, Joslynn and Savannah...our thoughts and prayers go out to your sweet family!! We are inspired by your faithfulness amidst all of the trials and the great tragedy that you are enduring right now. We pray that our Heavenly Father will comfort you in your desperate time of need and that you will soon find hope to continue with the plan He has laid out for your family. My heart is overcome with emotion and I wish you some reprive, but when the time is right you will feel some peace... I am sure. We admire your sweet and faithful family and you are an inspiration to many!

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  43. Robbie was a dear childhood friend who grew up down the street from our family. I have a photo album from high school that is full of pictures of Rob as well as a cartoon story he wrote me "Rob the Mouse and His Cool House" and a letter he wrote me when I left for college. We didn't keep in touch after I married but it is unfortunate that words do mean so much more when you are gone. I cry for his children and wife and for the loss that they must feel but hope that they will find comfort in the wonderful memories that they have together.

    In loving memory, Amy

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  44. Like so many others, I don't know Rob or Amber personally but am touched by their story. As I was changing my 3 week old's diaper, I heard these words on the radio and tears ran down my cheeks as I thought of your family.

    "I know it seems like this could be
    The darkest day you've known
    But believe you me
    The God of strength will never let you go
    He will overcome I know

    And the arms that hold the universe
    Are holding you tonight"
    33 Miles- Holds The Universe

    The entire Grimshaw family is in my thoughts and prayers...
    Kristi

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  45. We would like to convey our heartfelt condolences to you and your loved ones.
    We will pray angels around you and may you
    find comfort in knowing that GOD is holding
    you in his arms.

    Cindy & Vic Harris,
    Henderson, Nevada

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  46. To Amber, her girls, and all those who knew/loved Rob,

    It was by accident that I learned of Rob's situation, from Camille Roskelley's blog. My heart skipped a beat as I read the words "Epitheloid Sarcoma." My mother went home to be with the Lord on August 2, 1994, after a battle with this same cancer. Since then, Rob is the first person I've heard about who had Epitheloid Sarcoma.

    Reading of Rob's situation reminded me of my mother's. As a brief synopsis, at 36 years old, my mom discovered a lump in her arm. It was surgically removed and the doctors said it was benign. The lump returned a short time later, and she began coughing up blood. A biopsy confirmed it was Epetheliod Sarcoma, which had metastasized to her lungs. A 6-month prognosis was made, which turned out to be the length of time she had left on earth.

    Though the only treatment that conventional doctors could offer was Chemo (which just about took her life on more than one occasion), my dad and some friends attempted to find a facility that would offer some glimmer of hope for a cure. Friends kindly donated money to pay for the alternative treatment, which was to take place in Mexico. She didn't live long enough to begin treatment. She slipped into a coma and had a peaceful Homegoing at 37 years of age. I was 16, my older sister was 17, and my younger sister was 11.

    So, why am I sharing all of this? Because I want you to know that God heals the hurt in His time. Do I still miss my mom? OF COURSE! But, since that time, I have had the privilege of sharing tears with many others who have lost loved ones. There is a special bond that takes place between those who have experienced similar trials in their life. Would I rather have my mom back? OF COURSE! But, in the meantime, God has a purpose for me here on earth.

    About 6 weeks ago, my husband's cousin drowned in a local, fast-moving river. The people who have been the most comfort to us are the ones who knew him as well as we did, and the people who have experienced something similar. I'm sorry I did not know Rob, and obviously I cannot share stories. I can't even say "I know what you're going through" ... because I'm not YOU! But, I just felt compelled to let you know that you are in my prayers in a special way.

    Rachel Howell

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  47. Robbie (I never called him Rob) and I grew up together. Him and my brother were best friends for a while. What I remember of robbie was that he was a really kind and gentle person. He never said anything negative about anyone, and he was always willing to help others in need. Being a good person was just something engrained in him, and it was no surprise, considering the fact that he had such a loving and supportive family.

    One thing that I remember about Robbie was that he was an amazing musician. I remember going to his house after school everyday and hearing him play guitar from his bedroom, and thinking, 'man, he might actually be better than my own brother (who shreds at the guitar and drums, and pretty much any instrument you put in his hands)'. I remember sitting in his room listening to him play, and never getting enough of it. He was truly talented.

    I went to his house everyday after school. Mostly to eat their cereal, because my mother always bought the generic stuff. ;) Ok, not just that. I also loved being there. The Grimshaws were like a second family to me. Everytime I went to their home, there was this energy that I couldn't find elsewhere. Everyone was so cheerful and welcoming. I spent most of the time with deedee (robbie's mom) and robbie's two sisters, Theresa and Tammy (I believe that was their names, it's been a while). We would mostly have girl talk and sometimes Deedee would force me to engage in crafts to keep me busy until my mother came home from work. Deedee was the coolest mom ever. I really miss her and I'm very sad that she's no longer with us.

    Other things that I vaguely remember about robbie, is how he would wander around in his karate outfit after class. I remember him having a black belt, and I always felt safe around him because of it. We would always ask him to show us some of his karate moves, and he would, and we would all watch in amazement. But, most of the time he would modestly decline.

    Robbie was also an amazing soccer player. From I recall he was the best on his team. I don't know much about soccer, but it all looked to me.

    Thinking about him always brings back the very few good memories of my childhood. I miss him a lot and I'm sorry that he is no longer here. Tonight I was thinking about him, and how I wish I would have stayed in contact with him. That's what lead me here. I noticed not a lot of people who commented here really knew who he was. So, I figured I'd write some things that I could remember about him. Sorry it's not in too much detail, but it's been several years. My mind isn't what it used to be.

    A little late, but I would like to share my deepest sympathies to his family.

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